I love my job!

I was recently thinking what life would be like if Rhet and I switched places. He is such a great dad and I know he would do a good job with the kids. I am smart (well, used to be before the kids sucked away my brain in utero. I got a few shocked faces when someone saw I graduated summa cum laude from Florida State- now it is all just fuzzy up there), but am sure over time I could tackle his reports and schooling.

However, I think there would be a few hang-ups to this switch.
If Rhet were to take over the kids schooling and care:
*The kids would get fed... but it would be pancakes, cereal, or speghetti everynight.
*The kids would be dressed for church.... but hair would be in knots and they might be in their play clothes/dress-up dresses.
*The kids would have fun... but the house would be a wreck!
*The kids would enjoy creating and exploring... but their "formal" education and schedule would get slided for the idea that McDonald's playland is investigating space, gravity, how the body moves, and friction.

And if I were to take over his dental practice:
*The clients would get their teeth in... but I wouldn't take the precision and time to do all the "extra" steps necessary to make them look nice. Does it really matter if I leave the porcelain in the oven an extra 10 minutes? Wouldn't just one of the tools work just fine? If a tooth looks gross, lets just yank it and make a new, fresh pretty one. They might all look like Mr. Wilson's chicklets.
*The clients would get a nice experience (chatting) in the chair... but much would not get accomplished, because I wouldn't understand them with the instruments in their mouths (like Rhet can).
*The clients might get their teeth fixed... but if their mouths are gross, I would have a screwed up and twisted face during the entire process, with my arms outstrectched as far as they could go. Unlike, Rhet, who is all up in their grills.

What am I talking about?

I could NEVER do Rhet's job. He showed me some pictures and it can be the sickest, most unhygenic place I have ever seen. GIVE ME THE POOPY DIAPERS! GIVE ME THE SPILLED ORANGE JUICE! GIVE ME THE WHINING!

I love my job! I get breaks. I get naps. I get to as much time as I want for lunch. I get to color, do arts and crafts, do fun experiments. I get to talk on the phone and check the internet, with no retributions. I get to jump in the car and do errands without scheduling them in. I get to sing (without strange glances). I get to dance (without strange glances). I get to scream (without strange glances, just scared looks:). I get to watch (G-rated) movies in the middle of the day. I get to be the big boss. I get to be with people I LOVE to be with, and not people I am just assigned to. So, I'm so sorry, Rhet- I will never switch with you. I'll just let you borrow my job every now and then.
And just in case (in the unlikely event) that you reading this and are:
#1 a mom
#2 your husband is a dentist and
#3 you were thinking of switching occupations with him

Just let me give you a preview of what smiles you would get to see everyday...

And now see what smiles I get to see everyday...

Any questions?

Leave me a comment and tell me why you love YOUR job.

Judgement...it will come back to get you!

So, Rhet and I were remembering the days before the joys of parenthood. We would cruise Walmart at midnight and look around at the parents that brought their screaming kids at that crazy hour to go grocery shopping. That marked the start of a long list of things that we would NEVER let happen when we were parents.

I am happy to announce, that no, we haven't brought our kids to Walmart at midnight. Unfortunatley, that is about the only thing from "the list" that I can say didn't happen...


Then: The children will have good manners when
strangers talk to them and tell them they
are cute, etc.
Now: They stare blankly like they don't understand. No hablo Ingles?


Then: In public, they will wear cute, non stained, matching clothes.
Now: In public, they will wear clothes of the right gender, stains ok, clothes should be
somewhat clean. Backwards, inside out, and unbuttoned are ok.




Then: In public, hair will be neat, combed, with darling bows and barrettes.
Now: Barrettes are nice to keep the hair from
getting food in it- but matching barettes do
not exist. If you barely comb the top layer, you
can keep the same style in for days and it looks like you might have brushed it recently. Make sure

you have at least 1/2 hour and strong detangler
when you are going to brush it all the way.


Then: Shoes on correct feet.
Now: You don't need shoes, we are just going to (fill in the blank with ANYTHING)

Then: Never take your whole litter with you when
you are going to public excurtions. (shopping for
groceries, clothes shopping, the mall) Get a babysitter.
If you have to bring them, make sure they are contained.
Now: What is a babysitter? What is clothes shopping? If I
put all the kids in the cart, I won't have room for the groceries. On the rare occasion that I had a babysitter, I'm not going to waste in on doing these things!




Then: No joint gender baths.
Now: HALLELUJAH!
They are taking a bath.













Then: No weapons (toy guns, swords, anything violent)
Now: Don't point it at each other. Ok, don't put it right in someone's face. Ok, don't hit with it. Everyone has to have a gun/sword before you start fighting.

Then: Children will not run around the house in diapers/underwear.
Now: No more "naked parties." You have to have your underwear or a diaper on.

Then: Kids will have educational things to play with. But they will put each thing away before getting another.
Now: "Hurry, kids, someone is coming over, throw everything in your rooms and shut the door." Can we throw the box away yet?










Then: We won't participate in activities that have a lot of germs in them (playlands where the kids have accidents/colds/cough all over)
Now: We will stay longer if you aren't the ones that have the accidents/colds/cough all over.









Then: I will never show my belly when it is nasty with lines, veins, and huge with ANOTHER one of those unkempt and uncared for kids.
Now: "Alexis, this line is from you. Daisy, these veins are from you." "Mom, who are these wrinkly things from?" "Mom, which one of us did that to your belly button?"

Darn that 1st grade History

We are learning about the Ancient Egyptian Nomads and how they settled in Mesopotamia, and became a big empire. This entails teaching about Greek Mythology and the beliefs of the Egyptians. (Yes, I did check that I was teaching the right material for FIRST GRADE).

Well, my darling children had quite a few questions for me as we learned of the underworld, the god of the Nile, and the sun god. Here are a few that I remember:

1) Do they just believe in a lot of gods for different things but Heavenly Father is the main one?

2)Is Jesus one of the gods they believe in?

3) Why isn't Jesus married?

4) How are we Heavenly Father's children if He isn't married?

5) Why doesn't everyone believe in Jesus?

6) People believe in different things, but how can Jesus, Heavenly Father, and the Holy Ghost be the same person? Who do they think they (the Trinity) look like?

7) Why do people that go to different churches say "God" a lot, but we don't.

8) Is the Holy Ghost always going to be a spirit?

9) When is Jesus going to come down again?

10) If the whole world is going to be burned, then where will we sleep and what happens to all of our stuff in our homes?

11) Why doesn't Jesus just tell everyone that he is real like he did before?"

And the kicker...

12) So, everyone believes different things but we are the ones that are right?

It was wonderful to have this "teaching moment" to be able to answer some questions- but my goodness, they started to go a little deep and I think I got a little squirmy. Might have some philosophy majors in the works. They are just going to have to deal with their practical mom and her "need to know" attitude. Man, and I've been worried that they would ask how the baby comes out when it is done growing inside. Go figure!

What are YOU having for dinner?

So, I was thinking today of what we were going to eat for dinners for this week. There are many requirements that a dish must hold to make it to my list. One day, maybe after the baby is here and adjusted and I'm not tired, the variety will improve. But for now...


1. Can mostly be made sitting on a stool next to the island.
2. 30 minutes or less.
3. Preferably 15 minutes or less prep time.
4. Has to be made from basic ingredients that we have on hand (hamburger, chicken,beans,pasta,rice)
5. Helpful if there is at least one thing that Ben will eat (pasta, rice,no meat, nothing mixed together, no potatoes/vegies noticeable, can't have dairy- yes, including cheese)
6. Don't really like sandwiches.

It was getting hard to think of what we could eat that wasn't exactly the same as what we ate last week (or the one before)

So, here it is. Our meals from last week and this week. Comment and tell me what you remember eating for dinners last week. I'm hoping to make me feel better, not worse- and to get some new ideas. We'll see:)



*Speghetti with meat sauce
*cereal
*pancakes
*Subway
*French Dip sandwiches (super fast. Roast beef on rolls with aus jus dip)
*chicken cattitore with rice (family was not a fan-why did I bother?)
*Breakfast dinner (Pillsbury cinnamon rolls, eggs, hashbrowns, and cinnamon apples)
*cereal or PB and J
*homemade individual pizzas (great cause the kids make them all)

Baby Pictures

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Summer Fun

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School Memories from 2007-2008

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Just complaining...move on to another post for your own good!

I remember when my friends were pregnant before I was. As much as I wanted to be supportive and empathetic... my goodness, is that ALL they could talk about? There are so many topics out there...politics, movies, books, relationships between mothers and daughters/siblings/spouses/in-laws, birth order and its effects, cooking with wheat, practical healthy lifestyle choices, environment versus genetics, the effects of alcohol/drugs on a family environment, African American misrepresentation in US history, feminine equality in the 20th century (ok, so I spent a lot of classes in psychology) and on and on.

I admit, I did a horrible job when I was pregnant with Alexis. It had taken two years to get pregnant with surgery and fertility drugs. How could I not talk about this exciting time in our lives? How could everyone else not want to hear the wonders of childbearing? I needed everyone to truly "get" the miracle that was happening every single day as fingernails were forming, organs were starting to work, and how she would respond to loud sounds. And MY interpretation of "getting" something means to say it over and over, until I see a change in the audience and they seem to be just as excited and mesmorized as I. (don't worry, a lot of my friends were in theatre and had no problem in their acting capabilities)

Well, now we are to our 4th full-term pregnancy. Things are a little different. I can no longer think of things to talk about besides how awful I feel and how each day is taking forrreevvvveerrr. I am no longer as amazed at the wonders and miracle of birth. Actually, I think I could make some changes to the process that could be a little more efficient and less restricting. For one, as you have more babies, your body should react less to the demands of carrying a fetus. The formula would go something like:

fetus x (number of kids + fetus)= energy level (measured in laps you could do during your pregnancy without breaking a sweat or breathing hard- in the last trimester)
So, a first time mom would have 1 x 1= 1 lap without sweating
BUT a mom of 10 would be 1 x 11=11 laps without sweating
Doesn't it make sense that a mom with other kids needs more energy and has much more to do?


Why would each baby need 9 months to develop? If the rest of your body falls apart and poofs out because it "already knows what to do," then the babies development should take that into consideration. (not to mention that you have other children to take care of that don't care if mom has contractions/no energy to play/or patience) Your body doesn't need Braxton Hicks, cramping, or swelling SOONER to prepare you for birth; your cervex, uterus, and pelvis are quite aware of their performance necessities and are basically in the right position and size from the moment you conceive anyway.
Another formula that would work well for my situation...

fetus x 9/ (number of kids + fetus)= months needed until birth
Ex. New mom (1 x 9)/1=9 months till birth
BUT Mom of 5 would be (1 x 9)/6= 1.5 months

These suggestions are merely from a technical and scientific viewpoint, of course. Rhet doesn't like to hear some of my intelligent corrections for evolution in the fear that he will have to repair the roof from lightening strikes headed my way.

And, since I don't want to write in my journal how unhealthy my psyche is right now in the fear that poor Colby might read it one day and know how much I complained while he was cooking in my oven... I get to write it here on my blog...with no worries that Rhet will ever read this (because it is way too long) or that any of my children will know my twisted thoughts (they scroll right to their own pictures)- and if you care enough to have gotten this far...then chances are you have already heard my ranting and it won't effect your opinion of me. Two final words...


Pregnancy STINKS!